For this post I have researched via internet and from friends myths that are common about sex. For some I knew the answers but for others I actually had to look up if they were true or not because I hadn’t heard them before … lol. So here is a list of myths and whether they are true or not and why.
Myth #1: Size Does Matter
This one varies from person to person. I am sure that there are some women reading this right now and saying OH IT SO DOES! But the majority of female friends of mine that I have talked to tend to agree that it doesn’t. The general consensus tends to be that if the man knows what he is doing, then size doesn’t really matter and you will be able to please your woman just as much if not more. However, some of the women that I talked to about this say that size does matter. Like I said it all depends on who you ask. Some sex experts agree and others don’t. The point of the matter is to make sure you know how to please your woman and what you’re doing. Don’t be afraid to look up online tips for better sex and women don’t be afraid to help your man out.
Myth #2 If your woman doesn’t have an orgasm, you are doing something wrong
FALSE. Many men think this and feel as though they have let down their woman if they don’t give them an orgasm. Statistics show that only 30% of woman are actually are able to orgasm via penetration. Most of the time stimulation on the clitoris is also necessary to cause the woman to orgasm. It all depends on your lover. If you are unable to cause her to orgasm, try different positions where you can stimulate her clitoris and she can control the pressure to her liking. One of the good positions for this is where the woman is on top. If this still doesn’t work then talk to her and do things that turn her on. Fetishes are a great way to turn her on and try to keep an open mind.
Myth #3 Using two condoms increases the safety
FALSE. This is not only false but after research, is more dangerous than using one. This is due to the fact that by using two condoms, there is increased friction between the two and as a result have a greater chance of breaking.
Myth #4 An experience lover should be able to please anyone.
FALSE. This is not true due to the fact that every individual is different and has different turn ons and offs. Also, you could have sex with the most experienced person in the world but making love is also a mind and emotional game. If you are truly attracted to your lover and am crazy for him or her, then he or she will be great. However if you do have experience you have better odds of being better in bed so knowledge and experience is still a benefit.
Myth #5 You can’t get pregnant if the man pulls out before ejaculation or have sex in water.
FALSE. With the man pulling out before, there is still precum fluid that is secreted from the male penis before ejaculation. This liquid is meant for increasing the sperm’s chances of surviving in the urethra but this fluid also includes sperm and as a result a female can still get pregnant from it. Having sex in water does decrease the chances of the female getting pregnant but not enough for it be safe to do either way.
Myth #6 Drinking Mountain Dew will kill your chances of having children for men
FALSE. I remember hearing this myth once or twice in high school and believing it at first. But after looking into it, the ingredients in Mountain Dew may decrease the sperm count by a little but due to the shear number of sperm that is in a male’s semen it is not enough to cause a significant enough decrease to the point where a female would not be able to get pregnant.
Myth #7 Having sex the night before a big game will ruin your performance the next day
FALSE. This dates back to ancient times when men would have sex the night before a major battle. Athletes today tend to be superstitious when it comes to having sex the night before a big game and as a result a study was done. There was no correlation found between the athletes that had sex the night before and the ones that didn’t.
Myth #8 Condoms are 100% safe
FALSE. I know many of you are saying well of course they aren’t 100% safe but many people think they are and this is how some unplanned pregnancies or STDs happen. Condoms greatly decrease the chances of becoming pregnant and passing on STDs but one should still be safe. Some doctors still recommend that females take the pill as well and all doctors suggest that you know your partner’s sexual history and both get checked before having sex.
Myth #9 Men want or think about sex more than women
FALSE. The saying that men think about sex every 7 seconds is actually made up. I know several women that are actually more hornier than men and think about sex more often than some men do. Women tend to think or want sex more during certain periods in a month while men have their urges spread out. As a result it seems that men focus on sex more often than women. It is merely a matter of perception.
Well those are just some of the myths that I have heard or looked into. Feel free to leave your comments on the myths I have discussed or to even talk about some myths that I have omitted. I look forward to hearing from you, my readers, about myths you have heard about and whether they are true or false.
Skyye
Love is all around you, all you have to do is look
