My newest question is from “baffled”. She writes:
Hi, I’ve just caught out my boyfriend of 12 months cheating with someone else on and off most of the time we were together. We don’t live in the same town and only saw each other on weekends but she works with him. He seems truly cut up about it and says he did it because he lost faith in us working out after the first few months, but that he continued things because I never gave him a reason to end it and he liked being with me. Is this a total lie and is he really a player?
Well I believe I speak for everyone when I say I am sorry to hear about your situation baffled. As soon as I finished reading your question I knew what had to be said. I know I am bias when it comes cheaters but the reasons he has given you are BS. I really don’t like being the person to tell you this but you need to end it with him. He could be sincere about being sorry for cheating but I can guarantee you that if you stay with him, he will cheat again. I know he will say that he won’t but he will. If he was a real man, he would have chose either you or the woman he works with and if he chose her, then he should have broken up with you. I have friends that I like hanging out with and being around. He merely doesn’t want to give you up because when the girl he works with doesn’t want to be with him, he has you to fall back on. You are merely a back up plan to him and NEED to cut him loose. I promise you that you will be better off for it. Also, in my books I would consider him as a player. He fits into the definition I gave last post about what it is to be a player. He is leading you on without any real care for you while he fools around with another woman on the side. I know it will be tough for you because you obviously have immense feelings for this man, especially after 12 months, but I really recommend that you end it with him and find a better man. I hope everything works out for you and feel free to leave more questions.
Skyye
Love is all around you, all you have to do is look
